August 27, 2005

• How do I know if a guy/gal likes me? 

  
  

  This question often comes up in conversations.  Guys admit that they like the chase and like to be the one doing the chasing.  They say that it makes the girl seem more attractive.  But guys also want you to give them hints that you are interested.  Girls like to establish a connection.  I think girls like a moderate level of chase as well.  The intial moments before dating, the uncertainty, provides one of the most exciting times.  

  
  

  So Girls, hints are the way to go.  Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact.  Touching him lightly by accident and laughing at his corny jokes is another plus (of course the laughter has to be genuine).  Addressing him by his name will let him know that you're paying attention to him.

  
  

  So Guys, during your conversation, you can ask her questions or tell her things that help you get to know each other on a deeper level.  Initiate activities for either just the two of you or in a group and just keep the interaction flowing.  The more familiar a face is, the more friendly it seems. 

  
  

  Both Girls and Guys: please note that there are people who are just plain friendly and act like this.  They do not necessarily mean them as hints.  They may just want to get to know you better as purely a friend.  Confusing huh?  Well, take your time.  Don't rush into a relationship or thoughts about marriage. 

  
  

  To all the love lorn, these are just some things to consider, not words to live by.  This is Doctor Atyourbest signing off from New York with a goodnite and good luck.

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